Bill Williams has lived in Thailand for more than 16 years and has written three books that delve into the secrets
behind Thai girls.
Pattaya Bar Girls Report has helped men to learn the ways of the Pattaya girls.
After The Rush embraces more than 130 issues a man will encounter when he falls in love with a Thai lady.
16Dec/090
Living With a Thai Girlfriend – Rules and Salary
In order for your relationship with your Thai girlfriend to run smoothly you might find that you have to treat your Thai girlfriend like you would a child. There will be living together issues that crop up from time to time. There will be things that she does that you just can't tolerate. Like having the TV turned up loud enough to hear it at the next seven eleven shop while she is watching her favorite Thai soapy program. Most Thai girls love a Thai soapy and enjoy it loud.
Imagine this, she is watching the Thai soap opera then suddenly she decides that she wants to do something else like eat or sleep. Does she turn the TV off? No! She just walks away and leaves it roaring. Hey, who pays the electricity bills? You right?
Of course one way to solve the loud TV problem is to rent a condo that has a lounge room and bedroom. Or you could rent a two bedroom house. That way you can enjoy the convenience of separate rooms. Being able to do that will depend on your budget.
In Pattaya, Phuket, or Bangkok you and your Thai girlfriend could rent a single room condo of around 38 sq.m for about 5,000 baht per month. A two room condo unit could cost you double or more. You will just have to find a place that you and your girlfriend feel happy with. However I highly advise you to go for the extra room if you can afford it. There will be more issues than a loud TV that you will have to address.
Thai Girlfriend Living Together Rules
If you can't afford the extra private space then you will have to work extra hard on creating a set of “living together rules” that you and your Thai girlfriend both agree upon.
These rules will be important for the survival and longevity of your Thai girlfriend relationship. Please don't take this lightly. Your girlfriend will be accustomed to rules in her work environment. In fact correctly implemented work rules that are logical and simple are usually the backbone of any successful Thai business.
Thai people are comfortable with rules. Clear and logical guidelines that they can easily follow makes life simple for them.
Bar girls are already accustomed to this kind of treatment. In the eBook "After The Rush" (about developing a meaningful relationship with a Thai bar girl) a set of bar girl work rules are examined. Within the bar girl work rules there are six instances of the girls having their salary reduced for lack of compliance and in one instance childish behavior.
You could take this rules system and apply it to your relationship with your Thai girl.
Suppose for example in the first few weeks of living together your Thai girlfriend (TEERUK) regularly does something for you that you really enjoy. This thing that she does could be one of the many reasons that you decided to shack up with her, live with her. It might be a relaxing oil massage.
Keeping Your Thai Girlfriend Motivated
Suppose that after the fourth week of your relationship for some unknown reason your girlfriend stops providing this favorite treatment that you enjoy so much. Suddenly your enjoyment is diminished. You would want this special treatment to continue wouldn't you?
How can you motivate your Thai girlfriend to continue behaving in the way that she did when you first met her? Usually you will be paying your girlfriend a monthly salary. You might ask, "How much should I pay my Thai girlfriend every month?" The answer is not simple.
I know some falangs who pay their Thai girlfriends 5,000 baht per month. others who pay 10,000 per month and a few who pay a monthly salary of 25,000 baht and up to 30,000 baht. Setting a fair salary rate will depend upon various circumstances. It is beyond the scope of this article to discuss them here. Approach the salary issue carefully and don't pay too much.
Should you follow the example of the bar girl rules and reduce her salary for lack of consistancy? Threatening to reduce her salary might work but unless you approach this in a certain manner you will create a huge problem for yourself.
I know falangs (foreigners) who have threatened to reduce their Thai girlfriend's salary in an attempt to induce better behavior. A few have succeeded because of the way they approached the problem but those who didn't succeed faced emotional turmoil. It is the latter that all sane men would want to avoid. Right? The downloadable eBook "After The Rush" contains guide lines that will help a foreigner to build and consolidate his relationship with his Thai girlfriend and avoid the “hell hole”.
If the above link is inactive just go to http://www.after-the-rush.com
The important thing to consider in a cross culture relationship is the development of a relationship plan and guide lines that you can both refer to when needed. If you have a set of win win rules on which to base the development of your Thai girlfriend relationship your life will run much smoother.
11Dec/090
Living With a Thai Girlfriend
In order for your relationship with your Thai girlfriend to run smoothly you might find that you have to treat your Thai girlfriend like you would a child. There will be living together issues that crop up from time to time. There will be things that she does that you just can't tolerate. Like having the TV turned up loud enough to hear it at the next seven eleven shop while she is watching her favorite Thai soapy program. Most Thai girls love a Thai soapy and enjoy it loud.
Imagine this, she is watching the Thai soap opera then suddenly she decides that she wants to do something else like eat or sleep. Does she turn the TV off? No! She just walks away and leaves it roaring. Hey, who pays the electricity bills? You right?
Of course one way to solve the loud TV problem is to rent a condo that has a lounge room and bedroom. Or you could rent a two bedroom house. That way you can enjoy the convenience of separate rooms. Being able to do that will depend on your budget.
In Pattaya, Phuket, or Bangkok you and your Thai girlfriend could rent a single room condo of around 38 sq.m for about 5,000 baht per month. A two room condo unit could cost you double or more. You will just have to find a place that you and your girlfriend feel happy with. However I highly advise you to go for the extra room if you can afford it. There will be more issues than a loud TV that you will have to address.
Thai Girlfriend Living Together Rules
If you can't afford the extra private space then you will have to work extra hard on creating a set of “living together rules” that you and your Thai girlfriend both agree upon.
These rules will be important for the survival and longevity of your Thai girlfriend relationship. Please don't take this lightly. Your girlfriend will be accustomed to rules in her work environment. In fact correctly implemented work rules that are logical and simple are usually the backbone of any successful Thai business.
Thai people are comfortable with rules. Clear and logical guidelines that they can easily follow makes life simple for them.
Bar girls are already accustomed to this kind of treatment. In the eBook "After The Rush" (about developing a meaningful relationship with a Thai bar girl) a set of bar girl work rules are examined. Within the bar girl work rules there are six instances of the girls having their salary reduced for lack of compliance and in one instance childish behavior.
You could take this rules system and apply it to your relationship with your Thai girl.
Suppose for example in the first few weeks of living together your Thai girlfriend (TEERUK) regularly does something for you that you really enjoy. This thing that she does could be one of the many reasons that you decided to shack up with her, live with her. It might be a relaxing oil massage.
Keeping Your Thai Girlfriend Motivated
Suppose that after the fourth week of your relationship for some unknown reason your girlfriend stops providing this favorite treatment that you enjoy so much. Suddenly your enjoyment is diminished. You would want this special treatment to continue wouldn't you?
How can you motivate your Thai girlfriend to continue behaving in the way that she did when you first met her? Should you follow the example of the bar girl rules and reduce her salary for lack of consistancy? Threatening to reduce her salary might work but unless you approach this in a certain manner you will create a huge problem for yourself.
I know falangs (foreigners) who have threatened to reduce their Thai girlfriend's salary in an attempt to induce better behavior. A few have succeeded because of the way they approached the problem but those who didn't succeed faced emotional turmoil. It is the latter that all sane men would want to avoid. Right? The downloadable eBook "After The Rush" contains guide lines that will help a foreigner to build and consolidate his relationship with his Thai girlfriend and avoid the “hell hole”.
If the above link is inactive just go to http://www.after-the-rush.com
The important thing to consider in a cross culture relationship is the development of a relationship plan and guide lines that you can both refer to when needed. If you have a set of win win rules on which to base the development of your Thai girlfriend relationship your life will run much smoother.
Bill Williams has lived in Thailand for more than 16 years and has written three books that delve into the secrets
behind Thai girls.
Pattaya Bar Girls Report has helped men to learn the ways of the Pattaya girls.
After The Rush embraces more than 130 issues a man will encounter when he falls in love with a Thai lady.
2Dec/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
30Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
21Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
20Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
18Nov/095
Is it OK to bring girlfriend to Gentlemen clubs (G-Clubs) in Bangkok?
Going in a bunch with girls tagging along, will the clubs allow entry for our girlfriends?
18Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
18Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!
17Nov/090
Is Your Thai Girlfriend on ‘the Game’ (cheating on You)?
As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.
It has happened. You're hooked and the reel is spinning.
You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.
Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.
Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.
She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.
Move you to pity her:
When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) - her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents' house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….
Make you feel guilty:
Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.
Some people call it 'The Game'. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.
In most cases, you will help her to come out of 'hell'. Hell for you, but for her it's often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS's while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you !?
Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.
She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).
Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the "brother" who answers the phone.
And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can't or don't want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don't give her 'the little money' she asks you for - all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in 'hell' with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her - and her family.
But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.
"Thailand Private Investigator" is here to help you avoid these types of situations.
The danger for you, starts just after you leave, so get in touch with us while you are still in Thailand, or as soon as you arrive home, in order to keep the damage, both monetarily and emotionally to a minimum.
We have teams of Private Detectives whose specialize in this field, and we will be able to tell you very quickly if your sweet girl friend is on 'The Game' or not.
We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks - Background Checks - Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.
We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.
Our "Private Eyes" will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).
Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.
Don't put your heart and money into the hands of the woman who really isn't the woman you thought she was during your stay here. These would be the wrong hands, so it is better to be sure first.
Contact us now by e-mail to: michelm@thailand-investigation.com and visit our web site http://www.thailand-investigation.com - so that we can help to put your mind at ease.
Professional Private Investigator (former Belgium Police Investigator) in Bangkok and throughout Thailand. Fidelity Check, Surveillance, Missing Person, Background Checks, Special Cases?... Confidentiality Guarantee!